Here are some compiled stories and advice from HIPE juniors and seniors:
"I TURNED A STRAIGHT GUY GAY, AND THIS IS WHAT HAPPENED!" There was a guy from freshman year that I became really good friends with. He would text me every day and would always try to hang out with me but he told me he was straight so I didn’t assume anything was up with it. But then over time he started trying to get closer and closer to me until he came out as bisexual. At first I didn’t know what to do with that but then when he came on to me we started dating. We ignored each other while we were “dating” and often weren’t on talking terms. At our school overnight, there was only one water spigot. I waited at the spigot because it was hot out and I knew that he would need water at some point. He chose to get super dehydrated and then finally walked a mile away to get water somewhere else. We were obviously done after that. "SHHHH!" Don’t kiss and tell! If someone asks you out or puts themselves in a vulnerable position, don’t talk about it with other people or be disrespectful. "FRIENDSHIP BETRAYAL TURNED INTO MY FIRST GIRLFRIEND" At the school dance, I danced with a girl that I liked. Then, she went to a sleepover with all of her best friends. Then the next day, I texted one of the girl's friends telling her that I did have feelings for the girl but was uncomfortable sharing them because I didn’t want to ruin our friendship. The friend told the girl I liked and she ended up asking me out the next day. I was shocked but it ended up working out for the best. "SLOPPY SECONDS" Sophomore year I was at this party with a bunch of schools including Urban. I saw the guy that I was in love with for all of my middle school years come down the stairs with his shirt fully unbuttoned asking for a condom because he was trying to lose his virginity to a girl that I knew. Anyways, he got the condom and then after thirty minutes, he comes back down and we start hooking up in the pantry. So I was sloppy seconds! "SUGAR DADDY GONE WRONG" In high school, I started dating someone that was older than me. I liked him because he was older, super attractive, and always did really thoughtful things for me. But, throughout the relationship, I had a gut feeling that he wasn’t interested in girls. Throughout the relationship, I kept getting more signs that he was gay. So, my advice: don’t date someone just because they’re older and attractive, be sure of what your motives and their motives are. "HOW THE FOOTBALL DUDE SAVED ME" There’s this girl I went to middle school with that I was genuinely friends with but I knew that she liked me. In high school, I was talking to one of the girl’s friends at a party. I didn’t know that my friend from middle school was there. While I was talking to the girl’s friend, the girl from middle school pulled me aside and confessed her feelings. She kept me in a conversation for more than 45 minutes. Out of nowhere, this 6’3 200 lb football player ran up from behind and tackled the girl, interrupting our conversation. Forever grateful to the football player for saving me from the awkward conversation. "NEVER HOOKUP WITH A GUY YOU 'KIND OF KNOW'" My sophomore year this guy I kind of knew and invited me over to his apartment. He told me his parents weren’t home and hinted about something going down. I took the BART for half an hour down to his house and we hooked up. Immediately after we hooked up, the guy started telling me about this date that he was planning for that night for an older girl that he was interested in. He asked me if I wanted to help set the date up or go shopping for flowers for her. BIGGEST REGRET.
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AuthorDylan M Archives
December 2023
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